Zoya Mesaric is dedicated to providing compassionate and non-judgmental support to help you overcome challenges. Remember, it takes courage to seek help and guidance, and you should be proud of taking the step to your journey to the truth.

With Zoya's guidance, you can delve into your unconscious mind, conquer past traumas, embrace all facets of your personality, and transform into a healthier and more successful version of yourself. Whether you're interested in individual psychotherapy or psychoanalysis, couple psychotherapy or sex therapy, family or group psychotherapy, life coaching, corporate consulting, workshops or retreats, Zoya is committed to helping you succeed and unlock your fullest potential.

Your loyalty to past trauma is the reason you can’t heal.

SERVICES

  • Zoya firmly believes every human being is a new world with infinite potential. With expertise in sexuality as a certified sex therapist and specialization in trauma, Zoya utilizes direct and nonjudgmental communication to guide individuals toward embracing their true selves. Utilizing techniques such as the β€˜talking cure,’ she empowers individuals to confront their unconscious, fostering symptom reduction or elimination and promoting personal development through active engagement.

    Moreover, genuine transformation entails overcoming traumas and fears, embracing every facet of one’s identity, and evolving into a healthier self through newfound self-awareness. Psychotherapeutic methods like free association, transference, and dream analysis are invaluable tools in facilitating this transformative journey.

  • Zoya offers invaluable support for couples grappling with relationship challenges, seamlessly blending psychoanalysis and sex therapy to tackle issues and enrich intimacy. Through a journey of exploring fears, desires, and attachment styles, Zoya establishes a nurturing environment where couples can deepen their bond and gracefully navigate life's transitions. Whether navigating separation, parenthood, or reigniting passion, Zoya's steadfast guidance remains a beacon for couples. The ultimate aim is to empower couples with the necessary tools to elevate communication, unearth unconscious desires, and effectively manage challenges, culminating in a profound level of intimacy. By actively addressing communication breakdowns, delving into hidden motives, and offering unwavering support during pivotal life moments, couples fortify their connection. Techniques such as free association and sensate focus exercises are powerful allies in surmounting obstacles and fostering healing and intimacy. With a deeply personalized approach, Zoya expertly crafts pathways to healing and connection, laying the foundation for a more enriching and fulfilling journey in both love and intimacy for couples.

  • If you've been feeling overwhelmed and disoriented when you're with a group of people or going through a tough time with your family, it's essential to learn to address these issues healthily instead of sweeping them under the magic carpet. If you frequently struggle to find your voice or feel overlooked, Zoya offers support in navigating your position within the family or group dynamic. With her guidance, you can gain insight into your roles and discover strategies to enhance participation and understanding.

  • Zoya is committed to empowering individuals to reach their utmost potential. Her goal is to guide clients to remarkable success by facilitating their journey toward self-actualization. Through meticulous balance between work and leisure, identification and elimination of limiting factors, and nurturing their ego strength, Zoya fosters greater self-reliance in her clients, propelling them confidently towards their goals.

  • Zoya underscores the importance of mastering work dynamics, goal achievement, career development, and skill management within any corporate setting. Nevertheless, she maintains that employees' relationships, work-life balance, resilience, self-awareness, and future aspirations are equally vital. That's why she adopts a dual approach, integrating coaching and psychotherapeutic interventions to empower employees to unleash their full potential and excel in their careers, thereby bolstering the corporation's overall success.

  • Zoya's passion lies in hosting a variety of workshops and retreats tailored to diverse interests, including empowerment for women, men, and the LGBTQIA+ community and intensive success coaching. Through her workshops, individuals can cultivate new skills, bolster confidence, and discover inspiration to reach their objectives. Whether aspiring to elevate their career or embark on a journey of personal growth, Zoya's workshops and retreats offer a supportive and immersive environment for learning and development.

Embracing your past, acknowledging the traumas you've survived, and still daring to embrace life with unyielding determination is the ultimate triumph. Once you grasp your truth, you become an unstoppable force, unshakable by anyone or anything that tries to challenge your resilience.

HOW CAN ZOYA ASSIST YOU

  • Anxiety

    Symptoms: excessive and uncontrollable worrying, intrusive negative thoughts, agitation, restlessness, insomnia, irritability, muscle tension, breathing issues, nausea, headaches, fears and phobias.

  • Depression

    Symptoms: persistent low mood, loss interest and capability to perform daily activities, low self-esteem, sleeping problems, over-eating or under-eating, suicidal ideation, loss of sexual drive.

  • Burnout

    Symptoms: stress, feeling fatigued or drained, loss of motivation, feeling detached, procrastination, outbursts, problems with the immune system, using substances to cope, perfectionistic tendencies, pessimistic view of yourself and the world, need to be in control, high achiever syndrome.

  • Career Guidance

    Symptoms: a sense of failure and self-doubt, increased muscle tension, feeling detached and secluded, lack of motivation, venting frustrations over others, withdrawal from responsibilities, decrease in performance, productivity, and low job satisfaction, lack of separation between work and life, incapable of expressing oneself, self-esteem issues.

  • Identity Crisis

    Symptoms: constant questioning of your identity and purpose in life, gender identity crisis, mood swings and irritability, changes in sleep, appetite and weight, bullying trauma, loneliness, substance abuse.

  • Life Transitions

    Symptoms: low energy, disruptive sleeping patterns, feeling overwhelmed, nervousness, stomach problems, loss or increased appetite, jitteriness, headaches, low libido, new relationship, loss of a loved one, financial struggles, loss of a job, moving to another city or country, confusion, social isolation.

  • Loss and Grief

    Symptoms: shock, suicidality, fear, panic attacks, insomnia, loneliness, confusion, irritability, guilt, inability to work, sadness, denial, anger, detachment, nausea, headaches, reduced or increased appetite, bodily pain, hopelessness.

  • Relationship Issues

    Symptoms: difficulty balancing individual and couple expectations, communication issues, infidelity, divorce, separation, financial issues, sex and intimacy issues, jealousy issues, children issues.

  • Sexuality

    Symptoms: recovery from sexual abuse or assault, conflicting sexual desires, sex addiction, lack of sexual desire, body image issues, pain during intercourse, sexual identity crisis, fetishism, impotence, pornography addiction, erectile dysfunction, gender transition, LGBTQIA + issues.

  • Trauma

    Symptoms: uncontrollable thoughts about the event, feeling disconnected from reality, severe anxiety, feelings of guilt and shame, self-blame, difficulty concentrating, confusion, shock, denial, withdrawal from others, flashbacks, nightmares.

Understand how you were loved in the past, and you’ll gain insight into how you love today. Explore your views on sexuality, your sexual experiences, and your sexual fantasies, and you will uncover a deeper understanding of who you are today.

TESTIMONIALS

  • β€œFor years, I had been urging my husband to see a couples psychotherapist as we had several unresolved issues between us. Our relationship had drifted apart, and we were no longer as attracted to each other as we once were. We also hadn't engaged in intimate relations for a long time. With a lot of determination and persistence, we pursued the help of Zoya, who guided us through getting to know each other again and helped us rebuild our relationship. We owe a debt of gratitude to Zoya for helping us find our way back to each other.”

  • β€œI met Zoya almost two years ago when I was in desperate need of help. Initially hesitant about therapy, I consider myself incredibly fortunate to have found Zoya. She quickly adapted to my temperament and changing disposition. Zoya's own experiences as an international person living in Vienna have been invaluable in understanding my unique blend of cultural influences and experiences as an international woman.
When I sought therapy following my grandmother's passing, I was hoping for a quick fix to manage dangerous panic attacks and general anxiety. Little did I know that the hard work we would undertake together would lead to significant improvements. Thanks to Zoya's guidance, I've experienced better sleep, freedom from nightmares, and a reduction in everyday fears and monsters that haunted me. Zoya continues to assist me in recovering lost memories and healing from childhood traumas and sexual abuse.”

  • β€œZoya’s open and enthusiastic nature combined with a strong, educational background are reflected in her work with clients. Her sharpness and creativity allow for a beautiful and effective therapeutic process, where everyone feels understood and at ease.”

  • "Let me tell you about Zoya. She's a real game-changer. She completely turned my life around in the best way possible. She's like that bro you can talk to about anything, except she's a woman. When my girlfriend broke up with me, my friends said, 'You gotta see Zoya!'. They said she's fierce, and they were not exaggerating. I walked out of her office twice, thinking I didn't need therapy, but she was so calm and caring that I couldn't stay away. She helped me figure out who I am and who I want to be. She's like my unwavering support system. Zoya is truly special; there's no doubt about it. Thanks, Zoya, you're the best!"

  • β€œMiss Zoya has contributed a lot to my reunion with my son. I recommend her wholeheartedly to anyone who finds themselves in a dead end and can't see a way out! Thank you, Zoya.”

  • β€œBefore meeting Zoya, I was stuck in a rut as a woman in my mid-30s. I had been in many toxic relationships that made me feel like a failure. Zoya's support and guidance showed me that I deserved to be happy. Her coaching taught me how to love myself and find happiness. Now, I have a job that I love and an incredibly supportive partner. I am highly grateful for Zoya's help!”

  • β€œI'm a man in my 20’s with quite strong insecurities about my body and a complete lack of romantic experience. While I made a lot of progress in most areas of my (social) life, my insecurities had been growing for quite a while. Combined with academic burnout and doubts about my future career, this led to a lot of anxiety in the period before I started therapy. Zoya has been my guide through emotional landscapes and quickly made me feel comfortable enough to express everything I thought I would never share with anyone. With time, my trust in her has become very deep, and I value her listening and encouraging (and sometimes humorous!) attitude as much as ever.”

  • "One year ago, I lost my best friend, my dog. He had been with me for the past ten years, and he had always been a great support, especially during tough times. His loss was challenging to accept, and I struggled to come to terms with it. I'll never forget that one summer session when Zoya mentioned that it was a night with the most shooting stars in the sky and that maybe I could have one more moment with him. I made a wish upon a shooting star, and my wish came true! I closed my eyes and saw my dog running and looking at me in his characteristic style. I could see the happiness of freedom in his eyes, and I said goodbye to him, feeling content with what I had seen. I'm grateful to Zoya for always being able to bring me back into focus and give me the strength to fly again.”

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